08/31/2026
As soon as Nettie came in the Center door on Thursday she got my attention - she had news to share. Nettie and her partner, Danny, have been regular friends at the Micah Center since May. We sat down in the Lounge, “I got a job!” She was so excited to tell me about it: she will be cleaning a nearby gas station for $10 an hour a few times a week. Hopefully, it will grow into more, but for now it’s a good start. “I am so proud, it feels so good. It’s been really hard out here for the last year and a half, and I just want to work.”
She started to choke up as she told me about how she became homeless and tears welled up in her eyes. Nettie took care of her mom, living with her for the last three years of her life as she suffered the effects of diabetes. Nettie's mom was hospitalized in January 2025 with kidney failure, and Nettie “never left her side” during those two weeks until her mom died on the 17th. Nettie’s 30th birthday came and went while she sat in the hospital. “I went a little crazy when she died,” Nettie grimaced. “That’s how I became homeless.”
Danny was just approved for a HudVash housing voucher, and they hope to be back in stable housing soon. Danny is a disabled veteran and has a case manager through SSVF-Support Services for Veteran Families. The housing voucher is through a national program run by the Dept of Housing & Urban Development (Hud) and the Dept of Veterans Affairs.
In May when Danny was having trouble making the right connections with SSVF and didn't have a phone, we called our SSVF outreach contact and put Danny on the phone with him. A comfortable indoor space, warm meals, device charging, showers, and laundry service have been a source of strength for Danny and Nettie as they went through the process that can be bumpy at times. We are glad to have been helpful in coming alongside them: this is the work of Micah Community. We have enjoyed having them as friends at the Micah Center, but it’s a good thing that someday soon they won’t need us anymore. Help us support those like Nettie and Danny: become a Good Neighbor monthly supporter at www.mcmokc.org/donate.