The CHILD's Time, llc

04/19/2025

The Child’s Time, LLC, is seeking parent-child visitation supervisor(s) to supervise court-order visitation between non-custodial (visiting parents) and his/her child(ren). We specialize in judicially ordered services for families and children involved in the court system. This is a part-time, paid position. Supervisor must meet the following criteria:
Have a love of children
Have a desire to assist families in crisis
Must be responsible and committed
Must be available to work evenings and weekends
Be able to articulate parent-child interactions in writing and in person clearly
Be honest and ethical, with the ability to hold healthy boundaries
Be reliable, accountable, and willing to grow
Be self-driven and self-confident with the ability to work independently (with supervision and support from the director and senior supervisor)
Be assertive in dealing with clients, families, and other professionals
This position is a great experience for individuals seeking long-term involvement in law enforcement, social work, education, and/or psychology.
All training is provided. No experience is necessary, but experience with the child-welfare system is a plus. Please email your interest to [email protected].

12/05/2024

Attention: All subpoenas must be properly served pursuant to Oklahoma State and local court rules.

11/09/2024

The Child’s Time, LLC, is seeking parent-child visitation supervisor(s) to supervise court-order visitation between non-custodial (visiting parents) and his/her child(ren). We specialize in judicially ordered services for families and children involved in the court system. This is a part-time, paid position. Supervisor must meet the following criteria:
Have a love of children
Have a want to assist families in crisis
Must be responsible and committed
Must be available to work evenings and weekends
Be able to clearly articulate parent-child interactions in writing and in person
Be honest and ethical, with the ability to hold healthy boundaries
Be reliable, accountable, and willing to grow
Be self-driven and self-confident with the ability to work independently (with supervision and support from the director and senior supervisor)
Be assertive in dealing with clients, families, and other professionals
This position is a great experience for individuals seeking long-term involvement in law enforcement, social work, education, and/or psychology.
All training is provided. No experience is necessary, but experience with the child-welfare system is a plus. Please email interest to [email protected].

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11/06/2024

We have a monitor exchange program, which provides a safe and neutral environment for parents to move children from one parent to another. This service is designed to ensure the well-being of the parents and children involved.

The cause of death for one of two Oklahoma women found dead in Texas County has been revealed, according to state investigators.

10/19/2024

The Child’s Time, LLC, is seeking parent-child visitation supervisor(s) to supervise court-order visitation between non-custodial (visiting parents) and his/her child(ren). We specialize in judicially ordered services for families and children involved in the court system. This is a part-time, paid position. Supervisor must meet the following criteria:
Have a love of children
Have a want to assist families in crisis
Must be responsible and committed
Be available to work evenings and weekends
Be able to clearly articulate parent-child interactions in writing and in person
Be honest and ethical, with the ability to hold healthy boundaries
Be reliable, accountable, and willing to grow
Be self-driven and self-confident with the ability to work independently (with supervision and support from the director and senior supervisor)
Be assertive in dealing with clients, families, and other professionals
This position is a great experience for individuals seeking long-term involvement in law enforcement, social work, education, and/or psychology.
All training is provided. No experience is necessary, but experience with the child-welfare system is a plus. Please email interest to [email protected].

Call now to connect with business.

11/16/2023

Just a reminder, we do not send reminders of scheduled visitation. Parents need to mindful of the visitation schedule. We will send notification of cancellations only. Thank you!

08/01/2023

This past weekend a mother was killed in her home in Oklahoma City in the presence of her two children.

After killing her, the non-custodial parent kidnapped the five-year-old that he co-created then took off.

An Amber Alert was issued and my husband happened to be in a juvenile court room packed with DHS social workers and it was a symphony of phone notification sounds playing all at once.

It was not a good moment. What few of us knew at that moment was the details of the horror that had just ensued.

That drives home our point, the reason we exist. What people don’t know about the dangers of an unregulated desperate person who is raw with real or imagined threats to their livelihood, can hurt them.

I am in no means directing blame to the victim…to the contrary.

This is a whistle-blowers blow to beg others, everyone, to pay attention to subtleties that begin to appear as a person begins to lose all sense of and abilities to keep from lashing out because they are missing the very components that are supposed to exist to prevent such awfulness to occur.

We dodged the bullet - literally - as this family had legally intended-to-be protections in place that failed or were not able to proceed, as we could have provided this parent a means to safety, neutrally and carefully provide access to his child - in the legally-provided means possible.

His disregukation prevented many of his coping skills to kick in, including those of patience (for the process to meet his desires) and understanding (of him self).

Please, if you cross the path of a hurting person, be aware that you can never know what’s floating around in their head - how much harm has affected their ability to be present in the moment and readily access tolls they need to confront their distress it’s in a healthy way.

What happened this week shines a spotlight on how unhealthy an unhealthy person can devastate another.

We grieve the loss of a caring parent who sought all available resources to her and her family. We mourn the fact that those intended supports and protections failed her. And we wish, with all the power our live-filled wish can offer, all the best supports to the surviving children who went through hell.

May our “god-worshipping” and the good intending folks still here create a new, and functioning safety net for the survivors.

We have been here (for ten years and counting) to help prevent the emotions from bubbling beyond control, to then allow children to have access to a parent, to have their time (I named it “The Child’s Time” to emphasize our role, and a parent’s role, in this process) with the loved one with whom the child no longer resides.

Over these past years, we have learned some hard lessons and lost some parents to violent encounters - the ones lost have included both the victims and the perpetrators.

Let’s no lose sight of the biggest victims; the ones that come in the littlest of packages.

May they find their healthy way.

May we each recognize our ability to help, support or get out of their way.

07/23/2023

A mother grabbed her child before what was to be a supervised visitation. Then the most awful of outcomes happened.

What people don’t know about the dangers of what people feeling hurt are capable of can hurt them.

I recognize the business I founded, The Child’s Time, now in the trauma-empathy-giving-informed caregiving and protection of Director Julia Sands Tiller, Lydia our senior supervisor and nurturing parenting leader and our trained professional supervisors - per professional and ethical standards and our standards. The 10 years of creating a child’s time unfettered by the complications of all the hurts associated with the trauma of a family torn apart has been a roller coaster, but we kept on keeping on as we know that if only in the relatively short time spans, have offered kiddos an opportunity to stay connected with a parent who doesn’t live (or as often the case, no longer lives) together with that child, because of an alleged or confirmed safety issue(s).

What people don’t know can hurt not only them, but every party involved in a supervised visitation.

Trust the professionals who put best interests of the child as the formation of their operations. It’s a good “litmus” test. And saving lives is not to left to amateurs.

Thank you to all our helpers who have helped keep kiddos safe and helped hurt family members find value in precious moments.

And thank you to Melinda Norton who planted the seed for this service another nine months before I opened the doors to our first visit.

I give my gratitude to all my helpers, as I am so proud of how they have done such professional work with such meet-people-where-they-are skill.

To start the process for supervised visitation in our controlled-access space, or to schedule child exchange appointments that lesson the emotional charge of the process, then I invite you to start with an intake request from our website (just gather key information, such as legal info with court case number, etc. at the ready) www.thechildstime.com

There wasn’t an option for “supervised visitation and exchange professional provider” so I went with “child advocacy.” It’s what we do.

https://kfor.com/news/local/mother-and-3-children-dead-in-possible-oklahoma-murder-suicide/

The Child’s Time works for the rights of children to maintain contact with their parent & significant people in a safe & comfortable setting.

12/31/2021

The Child’s Time, LLC, is seeking parent-child visitation supervisor(s) to supervise court-order visitation between non-custodial (visiting parents) and his/her child(ren). We specialize in judicially ordered services for families and children involved in the court system. This is part-time, paid position. Supervisor must meet the following criteria:
Have a love of children
Have a want to assist families in crisis
Must be responsible and committed
Be available to work evenings and weekends
Be able to clearly articulate parent-child interactions in writing and in person
Be honest and ethical, with the ability to hold healthy boundaries
Be reliable, accountable, and willing to grow
Be self-driven and self-confident with the ability to work independently (with supervision and support from the director and senior supervisor)
Be assertive in dealing with clients, families, and other professionals
This position is a great experience for individuals seeking long-term involvement in law enforcement, social work, education, and/or psychology.
All training is provided. No experience is necessary, but experience with the child-welfare system is a plus. Please email interest to [email protected].

07/03/2021

From the Center on the Developing Child - recent working papers

We know that responsive relationships and language-rich experiences for young children help build a strong foundation for later success in school. The rapidly advancing frontiers of 21st-century biological sciences now provide compelling evidence that the foundations of lifelong health are also buil...