10/13/2026
There's a big difference between:
"What's wrong with you?"
and
"I've noticed you seem a little different
lately. How are you doing?"
Both may come from the same place of
concern, but they probably won't lead to
the same conversation.
When you're worried, start with what
you've actually noticed rather than what
you think might be happening. Ask a
question, give them time to answer, and
listen before jumping in with advice.
You don't need the perfect opening line.
You just need one that leaves room for
an honest answer.