09/04/2026
Here is the part of drowning that surprises people. It is quiet.
No splashing, no yelling, no waving arms. A child slips under while eight adults are within thirty feet, and every one of them assumed somebody else had eyes on the water. That is not negligence. That is how a crowded holiday works.
So assign it out loud. One adult, on the water, phone down, for a set stretch of time. Then hand it off to the next person by name. Say the words "you have the water now."
Life jackets on the little ones and on anybody who is not a confident swimmer, no matter how shallow it looks.
Enjoy the long weekend. Just make sure one person always has the job.