I Love My Fairytale Life

I Love My Fairytale Life This is a celebration of life, death and everything in between

12/26/2021

He smelled like home. He looked like home. He sounded like home.
~ Danielle Phifer

02/14/2021

“I want morning and noon and nightfall with you. I want your tears, your smiles, your kisses...the smell of your hair, the taste of your skin, the touch of your breath on my face. I want to see you in the final hour of my life...to lie in your arms as I take my last breath.”
― Lisa Kleypas, Again the Magic

11/18/2020

“It takes years as a woman to unlearn what you have been taught to be sorry for.”
— Amy Poehler, in Yes Please

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08/23/2020

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Letters to God from 3rd Graders 🥰
07/31/2020

Letters to God from 3rd Graders 🥰

Bob Marley once said:"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved beforeshe may love again. But if she lo...
07/30/2020

Bob Marley once said:
"You may not be her first,
her last, or her only.

She loved before
she may love again.

But if she loves you now,
what else matters?

She's not perfect—you aren't either,
and the two of you may never be perfect together
but if she can make you laugh,
cause you to think twice,
and admit to being human and making mistakes,
hold onto her and give her the most you can.

She may not be thinking about you every second of the day,
but she will give you a part of her
that she knows you can break—her heart.

So don't hurt her,
don't change her,
don't analyze and
don't expect more than she can give.

Smile when she makes you happy,
let her know when she makes you mad,
and miss her when she's not there.

Love with your whole being when you receive love.
Because there are no perfect girls, but there will always be a girl who is perfect for you.”

Thank you Bob Marley for such beautiful words ❤️

http://ilovemyfairytalelife.com/2020/07/12/finding-old-letters/
07/12/2020

http://ilovemyfairytalelife.com/2020/07/12/finding-old-letters/

Finding Old Letters.. July 12, 2020Desires, It's all about Love, It's called life, Magical Life, My Journey, Out of the world RelationshipsPrincess D To my crazy girl, I see you, just as you are. I love how much you live in the flow, how deeply you feel everything and how you follow your heart. I wi...

I had a discussion with another girlfriend a few years ago and she asked me a few questions which made me realise that I...
06/14/2020

I had a discussion with another girlfriend a few years ago and she asked me a few questions which made me realise that I do have a bias in my mind based on the colour of peoples skin or religion or country. It has been so subtle and unconscious. And I considered myself to not be a racist. When asked I realised that I would be more scared if I saw a black person at night when I was alone than when I saw a white person. And I have friends who are BIPOC. So it was a weird realisation. How much has media had an impact on me to unconsciously have that bias. How much have I been told that a terrorist is highly likely a muslim than any other religion. How much did I want to be lighter skinned because culturally people around me thought that fair skin was better and superior. How much would I trust an Indian over a Pakistani. And all these questions have left me thinking and asking myself even more about my perception and how much of it is actually true and how much is overly influenced by something I have been led to believe which may or may not be true.

WTF!!! June 12, 2020It's called life, My JourneyPrincess D For lack of a better expression… I don’t even know if I am going to be coherent right now and be able to express how I feel and what I feel. I am at a loss of words and yet here I am wanting to use 100s of words to express my loss of wor...

In 1990, the high school dropout rate for Dolly Parton's hometown of Sevierville Tennessee was at 34% (Research shows th...
05/24/2020

In 1990, the high school dropout rate for Dolly Parton's hometown of Sevierville Tennessee was at 34% (Research shows that most kids make up their minds in fifth/sixth grade not to graduate). That year, all fifth and sixth graders from Sevierville were invited by Parton to attend an assembly at Dollywood. They were asked to pick a buddy, and if both students completed high school, Dolly Parton would personally hand them each a $500 check on their graduation day. As a result, the dropout rate for those classes fell to 6%, and has generally retained that average to this day.

Shortly after the success of The Buddy Program, Parton learned in dealing with teachers from the school district that problems in education often begin during first grade when kids are at different developmental levels. That year The Dollywood Foundation paid the salaries for additional teachers assistants in every first grade class for the next 2 years, under the agreement that if the program worked, the school system would effectively adopt and fund the program after the trial period.

During the same period, Parton founded the Imagination Library in 1995: The idea being that children from her rural hometown and low-income families often start school at a disadvantage and as a result, will be unfairly compared to their peers for the rest of their lives, effectively encouraging them not to pursue higher education. The objective of the Imagination library was that every child in Sevier County would receive one book, every month, mailed and addressed to the child, from the day they were born until the day they started kindergarten, 100% free of charge. What began as a hometown initiative now serves children in all 50 states, Australia, Canada, and the United Kingdom, mailing thousands of free books to children around the world monthly.

On March 1, 2018 Parton donated her 100 millionth book at the Library of Congress: a copy of "Coat of Many Colors" dedicated to her father, who never learned to read or write.

Happy 74th Birthday Dolly Parton!

YOU ARE NOT STUPID. NO ONE IS.It's not just about how much you can memorize facts or do well on standardized tests. Or w...
05/24/2020

YOU ARE NOT STUPID. NO ONE IS.

It's not just about how much you can memorize facts or do well on standardized tests. Or what college you went to. Or if you even went to college. There is one body of research that says there are NINE types of intelligence. Read the article below to see which category(ies) you might resonate most with.

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"In 1983 an American developmental psychologist Howard Gardener described 9 types of intelligence [1]:

- Naturalist (nature smart)
- Musical (sound smart)
- Logical-mathematical (number/reasoning smart)
- Existential (life smart)
- Interpersonal (people smart)
- Bodily-kinesthetic (body smart)
- Linguistic (word smart)
- Intra-personal (self smart)
- Spatial (picture smart)

What other scientists thought were just soft-skills, such as interpersonal skills, Gardener realized were types of intelligence. It makes sense. Just as being a math whiz gives you the ability to understand the world, so does being “people smart” give you the same ability, just from a different perspective. Not knowing math you may not calculate the rate at which the universe is expanding, but you are likely to have the skills to find the right person who will.

The 9 Types of Intelligence

Here is an overview of the multiple intelligences theory, summarized by ASCD [2]:

1. Naturalist Intelligence

Naturalist intelligence designates the human ability to discriminate among living things (plants, animals) as well as sensitivity to other features of the natural world (clouds, rock configurations). This ability was clearly of value in our evolutionary past as hunters, gatherers, and farmers; it continues to be central in such roles as botanist or chef. It is also speculated that much of our consumer society exploits the naturalist intelligences, which can be mobilized in the discrimination among cars, sneakers, kinds of makeup, and the like.

2. Musical Intelligence

Musical intelligence is the capacity to discern pitch, rhythm, timbre, and tone. This intelligence enables us to recognize, create, reproduce, and reflect on music, as demonstrated by composers, conductors, musicians, vocalists, and sensitive listeners. Interestingly, there is often an affective connection between music and the emotions; and mathematical and musical intelligences may share common thinking processes. Young adults with this kind of intelligence are usually singing or drumming to themselves. They are usually quite aware of sounds others may miss.

3. Logical-Mathematical Intelligence

Logical-mathematical intelligence is the ability to calculate, quantify, consider propositions and hypotheses, and carry out complete mathematical operations. It enables us to perceive relationships and connections and to use abstract, symbolic thought; sequential reasoning skills; and inductive and deductive thinking patterns. Logical intelligence is usually well developed in mathematicians, scientists, and detectives. Young adults with lots of logical intelligence are interested in patterns, categories, and relationships. They are drawn to arithmetic problems, strategy games and experiments.

4. Existential Intelligence

Sensitivity and capacity to tackle deep questions about human existence, such as the meaning of life, why we die, and how did we get here.

5. Interpersonal Intelligence

Interpersonal intelligence is the ability to understand and interact effectively with others. It involves effective verbal and nonverbal communication, the ability to note distinctions among others, sensitivity to the moods and temperaments of others, and the ability to entertain multiple perspectives. Teachers, social workers, actors, and politicians all exhibit interpersonal intelligence. Young adults with this kind of intelligence are leaders among their peers, are good at communicating, and seem to understand others’ feelings and motives.

6. Bodily-Kinesthetic Intelligence

Bodily kinesthetic intelligence is the capacity to manipulate objects and use a variety of physical skills. This intelligence also involves a sense of timing and the perfection of skills through mind–body union. Athletes, dancers, surgeons, and crafts people exhibit well-developed bodily kinesthetic intelligence.

7. Linguistic Intelligence

Linguistic intelligence is the ability to think in words and to use language to express and appreciate complex meanings. Linguistic intelligence allows us to understand the order and meaning of words and to apply meta-linguistic skills to reflect on our use of language. Linguistic intelligence is the most widely shared human competence and is evident in poets, novelists, journalists, and effective public speakers. Young adults with this kind of intelligence enjoy writing, reading, telling stories or doing crossword puzzles.

8. Intra-personal Intelligence

Intra-personal intelligence is the capacity to understand oneself and one’s thoughts and feelings, and to use such knowledge in planning and directioning one’s life. Intra-personal intelligence involves not only an appreciation of the self, but also of the human condition. It is evident in psychologists, spiritual leaders, and philosophers. These young adults may be shy. They are very aware of their own feelings and are self-motivated.

9. Spatial Intelligence

Spatial intelligence is the ability to think in three dimensions. Core capacities include mental imagery, spatial reasoning, image manipulation, graphic and artistic skills, and an active imagination. Sailors, pilots, sculptors, painters, and architects all exhibit spatial intelligence. Young adults with this kind of intelligence may be fascinated with mazes or jigsaw puzzles, or spend free time drawing or daydreaming.

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Even 20 years after Gardener’s book came out, there is still a debate whether talents other than math and language are indeed types of intelligence or just skills. What do you think?

Challenging a millenia-old notion that intelligence is a single kind of human capacity does not necessarily win one friends among the intelligent. Gardener’s book is still controversial. If you find it describes exactly what you have suspected to be true since you first went to school, it still isn’t an easy pill to swallow. This book questions what we consider a good education, what we consider talent, and how much control one has to acquire them. The insights are there as long as you are willing to follow Gardener’s scholarly style – he admits he writes for fellow psychologists.
If you prefer a more entertaining but no less profound style, read Ken Robinson’s The Element. Just as upbeat as his famously animated talk at Ted, the book starts with exploring what went wrong or rather what was so right about your childhood self, what school did to it and why, and how now it’s not too late to rediscover your talents and intelligences."

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