03/14/2025
Buying a home as a couple is exciting—but it’s also a big financial commitment. Before you start house-hunting, here’s what you NEED to ask each other:
1. What type of home do we both agree on? (House, condo, townhome? One-story or two?)
2. Where do we want to live? (City, suburbs, or rural? What about commute time? school districts?
3. How much debt do we have?
(Student loans, car payments, credit cards—how will this impact our home loan approval?)
4. What’s our long-term plan?
Are we buying a starter home or a forever home? How long do we plan to stay?
5. Whose name goes on the mortgage?
Are we applying together or just one of us? (P.S. One person’s credit score could make a big difference in your loan options!)
6. How will we split the mortgage and other home expenses? (Equal split, based on income, or another arrangement?)
7. How do we prioritize must-haves vs. nice-to-haves? (Bigger kitchen, extra bedroom, backyard? What can we compromise on?)
8. What happens if we break up or divorce? (Do we have a legal agreement in place for selling or buying each other out?)
9. How will we handle major decisions about the home? (Renovations, refinancing, or selling—what’s our process for making big choices?)
10. Do we need life insurance or a will now that we own property together?
💡 Pro Tip: The strongest couples tackle these conversations before putting in an offer—because a dream home is great, but financial stability is better!