05/29/2026
Jessica and Elinor have been resource parents for almost seven years. They decided they wanted to get more involved after Jessica worked at a nonprofit serving youth in resource (foster) care.
“We have always been open to growing our family in non-traditional ways,” Jessica said. “Being a resource parent has challenged me to figure out, in the messy chaos of families, how can I show up for people who are having hard days?”
Their family includes a young adult who transitioned to independent living, three children and a three-year-old who lived with them while in resource care as an infant. She is now living with her father. Father and daughter join the family for holidays and stay connected.
“Opening our home to be of service to our community has been beneficial to our lives. It has made us more compassionate.”
Jessica encourages anyone interested to learn more. “If you feel the call to be a resource parent, the best thing you can do is start exploring that. Learn more! Take a training, become a respite provider. No one ever feels perfectly ready. It is not easy, but it is worth it."
Learn more at https://foster.oregon.gov