06/25/2026
For 31 years, Wallace was Helen’s Pride. They built a life together filled with love, community, and countless memories. When Wallace passed away in 2024, the grief was overwhelming. “I became somewhat of a recluse,” Helen shared. “I felt very disconnected from Pride.”
But through loss, Helen discovered a new understanding of themself, coming out as non-binary and finding support through Shanti Project’s LGBTQ+ Aging and Abilities Support Network (LAASN).
When Helen faced some of life’s hardest moments — including saying goodbye to the cat they had shared with Wallace for 12 years — a Shanti volunteer named Danny stayed by their side. He sat with Helen at the vet's office, read aloud from *The Goodbye Book*, and reminded them that no one should have to navigate grief alone.
Later, Danny invited Helen to see a play Wallace had once taken them to years before. “That experience was profound,” Helen said. “I felt deeply connected to Wallace. I wish I got to experience it with Wallace — but I’m grateful I got to share it with Danny.”
This is what community looks like. This is what Pride looks like. Not just celebration. Not just a parade. But showing up for one another through grief, healing, identity, and connection.
As Pride Month comes to a close, the need doesn't end on June 30. Every day of the year, Shanti volunteers and staff help people facing isolation, illness, loss, and life-changing challenges find connection, support, and hope. Because everyone deserves someone beside them.
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Read Helen's full story and the other inspiring stories featured in our Faces of Pride campaign at https://www.shanti.org/our-impact/faces-of-pride/