08/31/2026
Sometimes our professional work changes us in ways we never expect.
For years at Healing Hearts, I've worked with children and families navigating disabilities, executive-functioning challenges, sensory differences, and difficult transitions.
Then, after my own brain injury, I found myself needing to use many of the same strategies and therapeutic interventions I'd spent years using with others—on myself.
This week, while attending an author conference, I had the opportunity to meet Jess Ekstrom and talk with her about my upcoming book and what I've learned through that experience.
Our conversation led to an idea that I'm still thinking about:
In a world where it's becoming increasingly easy to outsource our thinking, knowing HOW to think may become one of our most valuable skills.
I use AI regularly—but not to think for me.
I use it to take care of tasks that unnecessarily consume my cognitive energy, so I can preserve that energy for the thinking only I can do.
My brain injury taught me that reducing cognitive load isn't the same thing as reducing thought. Sometimes, removing the unnecessary load is exactly what allows us to think better.
I'm excited to see where this conversation—and this work—leads next.
— Pat Ann St. Germain, MA, LPC
Owner & Clinical Director, Healing Hearts Family Counseling Center