Butterflies 15

09/28/2026

Good morning, this is our word for the day.
 Sexual assault is one of the enemy's primary means of distorting God's original design for physical intimacy. For a long time, I felt I could never be clean or pure again. The abuser stole my innocence, and I wrestled with the thought that I would never again be untouched. I took long showers and scrubbed my skin, but I still felt dirty. I made church-related commitments hoping religion would make me clean, but I continued to feel impure.

Jesus' finished work on the cross ultimately provided hope and healing for my purity! The apostle Paul says in Colossians that because of Christ’s sacrifice, you can stand before God as holy, blameless, and above reproach. God clothes you with garments of salvation and dresses you with righteousness just as a bride adorns herself with jewels (Isaiah 61:10). You see, no matter what has happened, you are pure because of Christ!

Not only does purity pertain to your past but your future as well. To live as a woman of purity, you must remember that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit and belongs to God (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). Caring for your body means putting your earthly nature to death and clothing yourself with love, forgiveness, compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience (Colossians 3:5-14).

Closeness with a holy God drives you to leave behind anything that contaminates or confuses your identity in Christ. The Holy Spirit transforms your thought life, chosen entertainment, and the company you keep making you more and more like Jesus.

Remember God’s promise of forgiveness, love, and purity. Although the enemy's goal was to deceive, God uses the experience to refine you as the chosen vessel intended for His glory!

Dear Heavenly Father,

Thank You for Your wisdom and support throughout the healing journey. Build a desire within the heart of the woman reading this to live a pure life. Give her the tools to combat the lies the enemy uses to keep her trapped in impurity. You are a Father of truth and freedom. Allow the peace and protection of Your Holy Spirit to guide her along the journey of purity, one step and day at a time. Thank You for Your goodness and grace. In Your Son, Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.

09/26/2026

Today’s Word
How do you begin to set boundaries when sexual trauma violates the core of who you are? For a long time, I was overwhelmed and frustrated that I did not know the answer. Have you felt similarly?

One of my first steps to establishing healthy boundaries was learning my identity in Christ. Understanding my worthiness as God's daughter gave me the courage to set and maintain healthy limits in relationships. I feared setting clear expectations would provoke division among family and friends. However, my firm no was deflecting unhealthy behaviors and allowed for rebuilding trust with God, others, and myself.

Not everyone understood or supported my changes. Some had grown accustomed to old behaviors and perspectives, and creating new limits sparked conflict. People were hurtful, and I lost some relationships. This point in establishing boundaries was hard to walk through, but I was not alone! Deuteronomy 31:8 says, "The LORD himself goes in front of you. He will always be with you, to help you. He will never leave you. So do not be afraid. Be brave!"

I witnessed God’s remarkable faithfulness in restoring some relationships. He allowed separation, at times, to develop Godly understanding, love, and forgiveness among us. With some of those relationships, God provided reconciliation; but with others, He did not— and may never. Only God knew which relationships were good for me, and I trusted Him to decide.

With time, God may restore, rebirth, and reconcile your relationships. Reflect on the previous devotional on identity until the scripture captures your heart. Remember the LORD's love for you is everlasting (Jeremiah 31:3), and you are redeemed (Psalm 107:2). Once you realize who you are, establishing newfound boundaries allows your heart the space to take the necessary time to heal. This transformation is a glorious demonstration of how God redeems your ashes for a crown of beauty!

Dear Heavenly Father,

Thank You for being LORD and friend as survivors navigate the healing process. Strengthen the woman who wants to cry and give up with Your Spirit. When the pain of healing has begun, may she persevere with obedience. Help her establish healthy boundaries and to maintain them during a conflict. Give her wisdom to navigate the coming obstacles. You are our Deliverer and Banner of Victory! In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.

“Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the LORD will personally go ahead of you. He will be with you; he will neither fail you nor abandon you.””
‭‭Deuteronomy‬ ‭31‬:‭8‬ ‭NLT‬‬
https://bible.com/bible/116/deu.31.8.NLT

“Long ago the LORD said to Israel: “I have loved you, my people, with an everlasting love. With unfailing love I have drawn you to myself.”
‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭31‬:‭3‬ ‭NLT‬‬
https://bible.com/bible/116/jer.31.3.NLT

“Has the LORD redeemed you? Then speak out! Tell others he has redeemed you from your enemies.”
‭‭Psalms‬ ‭107‬:‭2‬ ‭NLT‬‬
https://bible.com/bible/116/psa.107.2.NLT

Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the LORD will personally go ahead of you. He will be with you; he will neither fail you nor abandon you.”

09/25/2026

The aftermath of sexual abuse often results in an identity crisis for the survivor. As many victims do, I internalized the traumatic experience and became overwhelmed with disgrace and shame. All clarity about my identity seemed lost, and I fell into an unhealthy thinking pattern, feeling dirty, unwanted, unacceptable, and unlovable. I questioned my worth and faded into an identity that the enemy wanted me to carry; an identity that closely aligned with the world’s standards instead of God’s. By constantly doubting my value and purpose, this false perception of myself completely disabled me.

If you can relate, know that there is good news! God pursued and reached out to me while I was in my dark place. God reminded me that my identity is found in Him, my Creator. There is so much truth in the familiar saying, “We will never understand WHO we are until we get to know WHOSE we are.” Your Father loves you so much that He purchased you at the high cost of His Son’s life. Too often, we forget how committed He is to us.

You will not find your identity in the world or the hands of the enemy. No matter what has happened to you, what you have done, or what was said to or about you, you have a pre-established identity that cannot be shifted or shattered. You are unmistakably valuable to God. The Bible says in Psalm 139 that God created your inmost being and knit you together in your mother’s womb. Nobody can alter your identity as a daughter of the King.

Next time you hear an empty whisper that you are worthless or unlovable, allow the truths in God’s Word to combat those thoughts. Remind yourself of the fact you are God’s child (John 1:12), and you have been justified (Romans 5:1). You were bought with a price and belong to God (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). You are complete in Christ (Colossians 2:10) and free forever from condemnation (Romans 8:1-2). You have been chosen and appointed to bear fruit (John 15:16). You are God’s workmanship, intentionally created for a purpose (Ephesians 2:10). You see, precious woman, you are God’s treasured possession and the apple of His eye (Psalm 17:8)!

Dear Heavenly Father,

Thank You for adopting the woman reading this today as Your daughter and reminding her that she does not have to search the world for meaning, purpose, or esteem. Please allow the Holy Spirit to gently nudge her back into a place of belief in the person You created her to be. You are forgiving, strong, and merciful, Father! Thank You for all You are. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.

09/19/2026

Thursday nights gala was amazing!!!🥳🎉🎊 Can’t wait to post pictures this week.

09/12/2026

To all our friends and followers, please help support the ladies we serve by attending our 11th Annual Gala on September 17th from 6pm-8:30pm. Venue is The Red Willow Event Center at 5805 Woodville rd, Northwood. Tickets are on sale and will be sold at the door. This is the only fundraiser we have every year. We are a nonprofit drop-in center for survivors of human trafficking, domestic violence and substance use disorders. Help us so we are able to help our survivors!! Looking forward to seeing you there 😊🥳

09/11/2026

Getting ready for my 4 o’clock interview on Channel 11 News check out what’s going on with Butterflies 15!!!🥳🎉🎊

09/11/2026

I will be on YESFM 89.3 radio at 7:45 this morning sharing about our 11th Annual Gala. Listen in on your way to work or your other destination . You don’t want to miss this!!! Exciting news!! 🥳🎉🎊

09/11/2026

The Word That Calms the Storm Within
Sometimes the storm isn’t around you, but within you. Your mind races. Your heart feels heavy. Peace unravels with every anxious thought. You wish you could turn it all off, just for a moment… but you don’t know how. The noise within feels louder than everything outside.

And yet, right in the middle of that inner chaos, there’s a steady voice: the voice of Christ, who holds power over every storm. In Mark 4:39, we read, “He got up, rebuked the wind and said to the waves, ‘Quiet! Be still!’ Then the wind died down and it was completely calm.”

What Jesus did that day on the boat, He still does every time we open the Bible in faith.

When you read Scripture, you’re not just reading words on a page. You’re hearing the same voice that silences fear and breathes peace into your anxiety. The Bible doesn’t just teach: it quiets. It doesn’t just explain: it shifts the atmosphere inside you.

Maybe today you don’t need more answers; you need rest. Not more solutions, but the presence of the One who whispers, “I’m here. Don’t be afraid. I’ve got you.”

Don’t ignore the storm, but don’t surrender to it either. Run to the Word. My prayer is that this alive and active sword would become an anchor for your soul and the hope for your day. Because sometimes, the greatest miracle isn’t the storm being stilled, it’s your heart being calmed from within.

Prayer
Lord, You never promised me calm seas, but You did promise Your voice in every storm. Today I cling to Your Word as my refuge, my anchor in the chaos. Quiet the winds of my anxiety with Your living and active truth. Let Your voice carry me until my soul finds calm again.

In Jesus’ name.
Amen.

“When Jesus woke up, he rebuked the wind and said to the waves, “Silence! Be still!” Suddenly the wind stopped, and there was a great calm.”
‭‭Mark‬ ‭4‬:‭39‬ ‭NLT‬‬

When Jesus woke up, he rebuked the wind and said to the waves, “Silence! Be still!” Suddenly the wind stopped, and there was a great calm.

09/11/2026

Good morning everyone 🌞 Have a blessed day and share today’s Word!

Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ.

09/11/2026

Can you believe it?! ONE WEEK from today, we will be gathering together for our 11th Annual Gala! 💜

And trust us… you’re going to want to be in the room.

This will be an evening of connection, awareness, inspiration, and community — all coming together for something that is so much bigger than one night.

We are especially excited to welcome our special guest speaker, Kizzy Williams who holds a Doctor of Public Health (DrPH) and brings incredible knowledge and experience surrounding the lives and well-being of survivors.

Her voice. Her knowledge. Her perspective.

We cannot wait for you to hear from her. 💜

But the heart of this evening will always be the reason we do what we do:

🦋 To support survivors.
🦋 To raise awareness.
🦋 To bring our community together.
🦋 To remind survivors that they matter.

So grab your friends. Bring your family. Invite your coworkers. Come be part of this incredible evening with us!

📅 September 17, 2026
⏰ 7 DAYS TO GO!

🎟️ Get your tickets and join us!

One week. One room. One powerful purpose. 💜🦋

We can't wait to see you there!