08/28/2026
I just looked down at the bookmark I was using and realized I was holding a pretty good lesson about relationships in my hand.
My son made this for me when he was little. He’s 27 now.
On one side he wrote, “Mom, you are nice, kind, pretty and sweet.” On the other, “To Mommy, from Trenty. I love you.”
But what really got me was the bottom.
He drew me running and playing tennis because those were my things back then. He knew what I liked. He paid attention.
And all these years later, I’m still using the bookmark.
We sometimes make connecting with people much more complicated than it needs to be. One of the simplest ways to make someone feel important to you is to notice them.
Remember what they like. Ask about something they told you. Send them something because you know they’ll think it’s funny. Remember that they play tennis, love hummingbirds, have a big meeting coming up, or always order the same thing at the coffee shop.
People feel connected to us when they feel like we actually know them.
Apparently “Trenty” understood that a long time ago. ❤️
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