06/03/2026
How much of a child’s story belongs online?
A recent article by disability advocate Rebecca Cokley explores the rise of “special needs mommy” influencers and raises important questions about consent, and representation. The piece critiques the use of euphemisms like “special needs,” arguing that this language can distance children from the legal protections and civil rights connected to the term “disability.”
“One side effect of hiding behind euphemisms, I find, is that this habit disconnects children from the civil rights protections that come with the term ‘disability.’ Disability comes with certain protections established by law.”
The article also highlights concerns about reinforcing stereotypes, invading children’s privacy, and the long-term impact extensive online exposure may have on disabled children’s lives. Cokley emphasizes the importance of centering disabled people’s voices and experiences, rather than focusing solely on caregivers’ perspectives.
“When you’re the parent of a disabled child, you’re not the person most impacted. Your child is.”
Read more: https://zurl.co/BRpSL