08/17/2026
Mary Louise Warren was a daughter of Polly and Ezra Warren. After marrying Harvey Steadman, Mary moved to Strong's Landing, Wisconsin, where their fanily became prominent financiers of the growing settlement and operators of a wagon shop, furniture factory, and even a steamboat enterprise.
During the war, Mary wrote regularly to father, updating him on the whereabouts of his two grandsons. Her son Hollis served in the 11th Wisconin Infantry Regiment, and for a time printed newspapers for Union troops at a commandeered Jesup Printing Office in Jacksonport; a remarkable snapshot of wartime ingenuity. Her other son, Hiram, was a Sergeant in the 32nd Wisconsin Infantry Regiment under William Tecumseh Sherman, and somehow was at and survived the infamous Mobile Magazine Explosion.
The brothers often traveled great distances to reach one another during the conflict; a bold act that feels both brazen and strangely romantic in the midst of war.
Mary's letters captured the emotional landscape of our early republic. One of her final wartime letters closed with a sentiment that speaks for countless families of the era:
"I hope this dreadful war will soon close so they can all return home to enjoy the peace of former days. It is a sad sight to see soldiers round the street on crutches, as there have been quite a number since the battle at Pittsburg landing, while the funeral sermons of others have been preached and others still that belong here ate prisoners."
As we reflect on Mary's story, we invite you to learn more about the Civil War at our A More Perfect Union: Trials of the 1860s event this Saturday, August 22nd. We will be offering free tours throughout the day, exploring the people and experiences that shaped the era.
These tours pair beautifully with New York State social studies curriculum, making them an excellent opportunity for students of any age who are studying the Civil War. It is a chance to connect classroom learning with real stories and real history.
Join us as we explore the conflict, the courage, and the hope for "the peace of former days."
