Becky's Fund

Becky's Fund Freedom from domestic violence. It's our right®

“The future depends on what we do in the present

Our programs include:


*Issue: 1 in 4 women are affected by domestic violence.
~Program: Emergency Services and Support
Through our direct services, we assist survivors with finding an attorney, housing, job placement, and childcare.
*On a monthly basis, we are directly working with about 10 clients, adding up to about 120 families a year.

*Issue: Lack of financial independence is the major r

eason for abused women to remain with their abuser.
~Program: Financial Literacy
Through our Financial Literacy Program, we teach survivors how to achieve financial liberation and independence through coursework on budgeting, retirement, and family planning; supported in 2012 by Northwestern Mutual and TD Bank.
*Last year, we helped about 30 women and this year we look to assist over 40 women and their families.

*Issue: The highest rate of dating violence occurs between 16 to 24 years old.
~Program: National Domestic Violence College Tour
Our National Domestic Violence College Tour, which has reached over 45 campuses nationwide provides educational workshops, teaching male and female college students the warning signs of an abusive relationship and how to help an accountable bystander, and is sponsored by respective colleges, universities and student groups.
*We have reached over 50 schools and over 10,000 students over the past 7 years.

*Issue: 50-80% of teens know a peer in a violent relationship and nearly 80% of physically abused girls in their relationship remain to date their abuser.
~Program: Becoming Your Own Heroine
Through our “Becoming Your Own Heroine” Program, we collaborate with the Girl Scouts and youth organizations to train and educate “tweens” on dating violence, self-defense, and artistic expression; supported in 2010 by McDonalds.
*Over the last 5 years of the program, we have reached over 1,000 young girls.

*Issue: Due to domestic violence being a gendered crime and problem, work must be done with men and boys to teach them how to become allies to women and girls.
~Program: Men of Code
Through our “Men of CODE" program, we are partnering with DC Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Friendship Collegiate High School to create a new program that engages men and boys to become leaders and allies in the movement to end violence against women. MoC represents Men of Character and Ownership, Dedicated to Leading by Example.
*We will be working with over 400 young men from 2013 - 2015 in this program.

*Issue: Veterans with PTSD are 2-3 times more likely than veterans without PTSD to engage in intimate partner violence.
~Program: Peace at Home
Through our "Peace at Home" program, we partner with mental health professionals, military, and affected military families to address the effects of PTSD on the family unit and provide support to prevent suicide and increased violence to family members.
*We look forward to working with over 25 families during 2013.

07/30/2026

On July 18, Andrew and Tristan Tate were arrested in Miami on a UK extradition request, facing new charges of r**e, s*xual assault, and human trafficking.

📍Why this public arrest matters

💡For boys and young men: For many, Andrew Tate is their ultimate role model. This arrest reveals who he really is—and shows he is not above the law. When someone seen as a role model is arrested for crimes like r**e and s*x trafficking, it matters—especially for young men learning what respect, consent, and leadership really mean. Holding the Tate brothers accountable sends a powerful counter-narrative to the online misogyny that enables violence to continue.

💡For survivors: This public arrest can offer hope that the tides are turning—that the legal system is available to hold abusive men accountable for violent crimes against women and girls. High-profile cases like this one are vital for building survivor trust in the justice system. For some, it may bring validation and comfort: when they are ready to come forward, they too can pursue justice for their own trauma.

07/30/2026

Due to an extradition request from the UK, Andrew Tate and his brother Tristan were taken into custody in Miami for 38 new charges related to r**e, s*xual assault, s*x trafficking, and extreme po*******hy.

Young boys are watching and see that inflicting harm on women and girls is never okay and can lead to consequences.

Survivors are also watching and see perpetrators facing punishment, which could encourage survivors to come forward with their experiences and seek justice through the legal system.

Accountability means holding people responsible for their actions to break the cycle of violence.

“Because ultimately, domestic violence comes down to one thing: a choice.And that choice belongs to the potential abuser...
07/29/2026

“Because ultimately, domestic violence comes down to one thing: a choice.

And that choice belongs to the potential abuser: to be violent—or not.

So when I tell you to walk away—when I tell you that you have a choice—you know I’m not just saying it. I’ve lived it.

There is always a choice.”

In 2015, Pittsburgh Steelers cornerback William Gay wore bright purple cleats during Domestic Violence Awareness Month to honor his mother, Carolyn Hall, who was killed by her husband when William was just a child. He knew it could cost him—and it did. He was fined by the NFL, and he asked that the money go to domestic violence support services instead of appealing the penalty.

For William, those purple cleats were never about breaking the rules. They were about starting a conversation so others wouldn’t have to live in silence. His story reminds us that awareness leads to action—and that one person’s choice to speak up can change lives.

Thank you, William Gay, for using your voice and story to inspire.

🙌Together, we can create a future where healthy relationships can thrive and survivors can get the help they deserve to live free from abuse.

Access to potentially lifesaving information should be available to everyone.In the context of abusive relationships, th...
07/27/2026

Access to potentially lifesaving information should be available to everyone.

In the context of abusive relationships, this information could prevent an escalation of violence.

Recognizing this fact, Ireland has recently passed Jennie’s Law to create a public register of domestic violence perpetrators. Similarly, Clare’s Law has been implemented in England and Wales since 2014, which has granted police officers the ability to disclose a partner’s abusive past.

At the beginning of 2026, Savanna’s Law set up a public register of repeat offenders in Tennessee. However, some have stated that the database excludes many abusers who are never convicted and could compromise survivor privacy if people can link survivors with abusers on the list.

To address these limitations, a federal public register in the US should combine offender information with domestic violence resources about warning signs, and let survivors decide if offender names are released.

This information could potentially stop an abusive relationship in its tracks before it’s too late.

07/27/2026

💚Healing begins when survivors are seen, heard, and believed.

Sharing our stories has power. Each time a survivor speaks, they break through shame and stigma—and offer hope to someone still suffering in silence.

These stories don’t just heal; they shape how the next generation understands relationships, respect, and responsibility.

💚At , we create space for these important stories because prevention starts with awareness. When young men hear the realities of abuse and the strength it takes to heal, they begin to see that they have the power to choose differently - and that leadership is rooted in empathy, respect, and accountability.

🫶Samantha, thank you for trusting with your story. Your vulnerability and resilience left a lasting impact, giving these young men something no textbook ever could - a deeper understanding of the impact of violence. Your courage challenged these future leaders to think differently about the choices they make, the relationships they build, and the responsibility they have as men to lead, respect, and intervene.

You reminded them that courage isn’t just surviving—it’s using your voice so someone else feels less alone.

🙌Together, we are raising a generation of young men who will lead with empathy, stand up for others, and help create safer communities for all.

💚Your voice matters. Your story matters. And because of your courage, the future is brighter.

🚨Just In: Domestic Violence reached a record high during the 2026 World Cup.384 incidents were reported, most occurring ...
07/24/2026

🚨Just In: Domestic Violence reached a record high during the 2026 World Cup.
384 incidents were reported, most occurring after England’s loss to Argentina.

That’s a shocking 223% rise since the last men’s World Cup. And as domestic violence is usually underreported, it’s likely to be just the tip of the iceberg.

📣Let’s Be Clear:
👉Alcohol does not cause domestic violence.
👉Abusers choose to use violence and must be held accountable for their actions.

🚩Help us shift the narrative and give domestic violence the red card.

Sheldon Kennedy achieved his dream of playing in the NHL, but behind his success, he was enduring years of s*xual abuse ...
07/22/2026

Sheldon Kennedy achieved his dream of playing in the NHL, but behind his success, he was enduring years of s*xual abuse by trusted coach Graham James. Like many survivors, fear, shame, and the possibility of not being believed kept him silent for years.

Although Sheldon Kennedy was an elite athlete with extraordinary physical strength, Kennedy was still vulnerable to grooming, manipulation, and the unequal power held by his coach, Graham James, who controlled his future.

When Kennedy chose to speak out, he helped expose one of Canada's most notorious abusers and inspired countless other survivors to come forward.

Sheldon Kennedy’s advocacy has transformed the conversation around abuse in sport, helping create safer environments for young athletes.

Sheldon Kennedy's story reminds us that abuse is rooted in power and control, not physical strength. His courage in speaking out has helped countless survivors realize that healing is possible and that there is a way to reclaim your life.

AI glasses are enabling abusive behavior with just the touch of a button.This emerging type of abuse can look like filmi...
07/17/2026

AI glasses are enabling abusive behavior with just the touch of a button.

This emerging type of abuse can look like filming without knowledge, posting s*xual footage online, and tracking daily movements.

As a starting point, New York State’s blanket ban on AI smart glasses in courtrooms could bring attention to the ways technology can facilitate abuse and thus prevent further harm in relationships.

Everyone deserves to live a life free from unwanted surveillance.

07/16/2026

Real change is possible—but it isn’t simple or quick.

Domestic violence is rooted in power and control, shaped over years by culture, experiences, and belief systems. Unlearning these behaviors & actions takes personal work, time, accountability, and a willingness to face hard truths.

Change is more likely when people take responsibility, are held accountable by others, and stay committed over time. Even then, not everyone changes.

That’s why prevention matters. Teaching boys and young men about respect, consent, and healthy relationships is critical to stopping violence before it starts.

We can’t afford to look away. Support accountability. Invest in prevention. Challenge harmful beliefs when you see them. Real change takes all of us.

Thank you Deeyah Khan - for your incredible labor and effort in bringing these stories to light. The more we can understand the realities around domestic violence, the more we can support survivors and creating a future free from violence and abuse.

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