Sis Nontlalontle

Sis Nontlalontle If you have an issue that you would like advice on either Depression, Family issues, GBV etc send me a message/DM and I'll post it.

This will allow people to give you advice and I'll also give my professional advice as a social worker.

10/08/2023

Your mental health should be your priority, learn to leave the room when the environment is toxic to your mental well-being. You’ll thank me later, love and light🤍💫

27/06/2022

Hii cc ndingu…… (name hidden) eMfuleni ndikhule hlala kwalanga nabantwana basekhaya impilo ingentlanga because besinabazali abalwayo qho sihamba silala ngeWeekends. I then I moved to westlake 2017 kudabs kunzima ndikhangela umsebenzi, my friend in 2019 wandiboleka imali wathi ndizomane ndibeka nxandiphangela mandikhangele into endinoyenza.

Ndathatha lamali ndenza iCourse ye health care assistance kwaNido nursing college yeyonyanga then bandifaka kwiPrivate patient. I then started paying iFriend monthly.

Yasweleka patient le ndandiyihoya, kwaphela umsebenzi and dabs wandiphatha kakubi. Ngenxa yentlalo embi ndaphela ndinikwa indawo ngomnye usisi apha eMfuleni ndiyayirenta but andikafumani msebenzi sisi andilali ngumthambo I loose my self everyday 🙇‍♀️ndiyadlakazela ndoyika nophuma phandle impahla ziphelile ndidinga iCounseling kakhulu and ukuba bakhona abantu abanok*mdinceda ngempahla ndizokwazi ukunciba ndiyokhangela umsebenzi.

01/10/2021

Sisi please hide my name. I was pregnant and 2 months in my pregnancy ndaqala ukungayiFeel imilenze yam, I couldn't walk or do anything for myself besides just holding things and dressing my upper body. I used to be an independent woman ke working as a teacher, ndangena ngeBackdoor ke but i was teaching Grade R ndinemali yam. All of a sudden now i was unable to get up and take a mere walk. This frustrated me a lot.

Last night i miscarried, i lost my precious baby😭😭 i am not okay, i want to let out a very loud cry, i feel trapped in these emotions. I feel like God is somehow punishing me, I don't know ukuba ndimenze ntoni. My partner on the other hand is not supportive, i think udikiwe ndim because i have been his responsibility for the past 4 months. I just want to go home in the Eastern Cape, i have no one there but i just want to ne home.

I am venting, I don't need advice. Thank you

15/09/2021

I have an abusive boyfriend who is a chronic alcoholic, I'm not sure if you can assist me.

I would like to get assistance to help him get better, thing is when he's sober he's a good man the problem begins when he's under the influence of alcohol. Uyayazi yena uba une ngxaki ngoba mzekelo after eViolent on the previous day uvuka axolise ade athi uzoyeka tywala, but same day athi uzoyeka ngayo phinde asele.

Please help me if you can.

01/09/2021

Hi sis ndihlala eMfuleni, ndicela ubuza akhomntu umaziyo ongafuna noba kucocelwa indlu yakhe or ukwenzelwa laundry. Ndiyasokola andifuman msebenzi tu kudala ndizama worse ndiya renta no renta 😭😭😭ndiyakucela sis as long ndizokwaz ukubhatala rent xa kuphela inyanga noba andikwaz kuthenga ukutya.

Umntu odinga info or onomsebenzi for mna angandifownela kuleNumber 0659684572. Enkosi

26/08/2021

I am a 25 year old lady dating a 34 year old
man. We've been together for almost 4
years now, for the past 3 years our
relationship has been solid.

In August I got injured at work as a result I
spent about a month away from him. Ever
since my injury our relationship has not
been the same. While I was in hospital I gave him my bank card asking him to withdraw money for me, he drew out the money and spent it on gambling and alcohol.

I let that pass, only to find out from his friends that he was drinking with them and some girl was there. While drinking he apparently wanted to sleep with the girl cause he had spent his money on her and apparently he hit the girl cause she refused. All this I'm getting from his friends.

When I came back from the hospital he
told me he fought with his friends cause of
money that's why they had been distancing
themselves. Whereas his friends say they
distanced themselves cause of what they
told me about the girl. I don't know who to believe cause 1. Why would his friends lie about something so big ( attempted r**e). 2. I have never thought of him who would do such a thing.

I feel like I don't know him he drinks a lot
lately and if this is true. I am in love with a
monster, who knows what he could do to
me or worse someone else. Yes I know him to be violent when drunk but this is another level on its own. I just wanted to vent because i know i have to leave him.

17/08/2021

Good evening bantase

What is your definition of abuse? Do you know where to report abuse cases?

Let's engage and educate each other.

05/08/2021

Andiyazi noba unedimoni okanye kwenzeka ntoni lobhuti ndijola naye. Unento yokuthi xa nditakile sihleli avele aphakame aye eBathroom abukele iporn abuye se aroused efuna senze the deed. Mna iyandonyanyisa lonto and sixabana oko because uyenza oko lento and uyazifihla k*m xa ezobukela leporn yakhe.

Andiyazi noba ndim andikho appealing na kuye, but indenza ndizive ingathi andikho sexy enough for him to be aroused kufuneka aqale ayobukela laporn kuqala abone lamantombi kuqala. Last number kengoku ndithathe phone yakhe ndajonga recent search and then ndabona "omarhosha baseMfuleni". Haybo ndicela nindincede, mhlambi ndim ingxaki apha or andiyazi kwenzeka ntoni man.

04/08/2021

I'm pregnant and ndimithiswe yilendoda indibethaumhla nezolo😭😭😭i was still gathering strength ndisaqokelela nemali yokuba ndikwazi uzimela xa ndimnke kuye. Ndicela undincede Sis Nontlalontle nani mzi wakowethu ndixakiwe

27/07/2021

Hi sis Nontlalo, please keep me anonymous. IJust want to hear from others. I have a problem with my girlfriend, she is so clingy. She calls more than 5 times a day. When I tell her I'm busy at work and can't talk, uyaqumba. I stay alone, so when I get home I have to rest, cook, clean and watch TV. I sometimes read a book to help me sleep. She would want to video call and talk for hours. I'd normally text her good night before i sleep and she'll reply with a video call🙄. When she visits it's worse because she follows me everywhere, including the toilet. The other day I woke up at 3am to go p*e and she went from snoring to following me in just seconds. When I'm on a call she rushes me to finish, even when I'm talking with my parents. I love her and she's a very interesting person, but I'm suffocating in this relationship.

How do i handle this?

23/07/2021

"Good evening, our house burnt to ashes. My dad lost all his clothes and the furniture, kushiyeke only ezi zisesiqwini. Please help with whatever you can. He's an XL ngaphezulu and size 40 on Trousers. Please assist us, we don't have shelter and it's very cold. We'll appreciate just about anything."

This person is in King William's Town, please help out bethuna yhini kulengqele

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