
03/10/2024
The Body Keeps the Score" by Bessel van der Kolk
"Exploring how trauma affects the body and mind and offers pathways to healing"
The traumatic experience of life.
Imagine the moment of preparation to ask your Mother -
Mum Who is my Father?
Daddy Who is My Mother?
You could feel the flow of sweat between your back, your heart pounding like a mortar crushing Pearl millet.
The whole body shivering, hands wet with the heatwave of fear. Not sure if it is the right time, the right place
Your eyes 👀 looking at your Mother to measure her body language of responses.
Your eyes are full of tears of pain and fear of what is going to follow.
You hear the sigh from your Father that he is not ready to free you from this prison of searching for Answers.
His anger is using you as a tool of hurting each thru you.
Panorwa nzou sora ndiro rinokuwara.
When elephants fight the grass suffers.
As the child keep waiting in eager, for a response, some parts of the body are affected with anxiety.
This anger you have towards each other, who suffers more.
I have the right to know who brought me in this World. Where in good or bad, i just deserve to know my blood and the womb that carried me🙈🙈🙈
Parents have no idea what this moment feels like to those who have the courage to ask💡
Some will die in silence, hence indulging in negative morals.
Society condemns the children for their unexpected personalities,
We forget to explore the source of the traumatic behavior the children exhibit caused by parents.
Sexual abuse
Use of drugs
Watching p***o
Perpetuating violence
Might be a cry for help from the perpetrator.
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