07/29/2026
Hi everyone, my name is Kirsten Gackowski and I am part Filipino from my mother’s side.
My mother was born in the U.S. but my grandparents on her side both came to the U.S. from the Philippines, making me a third-generation Filipino. I am also originally from Chicago, IL.
Growing up, my grandparents on my mother’s side were some of the best role models. Both of my grandparents were doctors: my grandmother was a Neonatal Pediatrician, and my grandfather was Chief Surgeon at the hospital I was born at. Their legacy taught me that nothing worth having is ever easy, and hard work was always necessary.
My mother always told me the term, “Sweat Equity”, which meant the effort that you put into life, is what you will get out of it in return. I have found this to be true in my own life. A story that I heard growing up that sticks with me was when my grandfather was still Chief Surgeon. He told me the story of a young girl who needed life-saving surgery, but the family couldn’t afford it and they had no insurance to help pay for the costs. He told me he decided to waive the expenses for the family and offered to perform the surgery free of charge. He told me he was in the operating room for many, many hours, and he told me about how upset and angry he got because he was afraid that he wasn’t going to be able to save her, but he persevered through it and ended up successfully completing the surgery. Many years later, he received a letter from the girl thanking him for saving her life. She stated that she was now in college, married with children, and how his gracious and incredible act to save her led her to having a family of her own and had inspired her to go into medicine.
I carry this story with me everyday at work because it shows that even one great act of kindness can significantly shape the course of the future. I have since gone on to accomplish many things in my own right.
I have since gone on to become a professional signed model, where I have been featured in some of the most well-known fashion magazines in the world, including Glamour Bulgaria, Marie Claire Ukraine, Harper’s Bazaar Vietnam, Cosmopolitan Ukraine, and soon more.
I am also a beauty pageant queen, where my titles have been Mrs Hawaii USA Earth 2023, International Philippines 2024, Mrs Elemental Philippines 2024, and more recently, Mrs. Philippines Earth 2026-2027. I am also an influencer, and I have a career in Public Safety, specifically, Law Enforcement. I am also a domestic violence awareness advocate, and promote women empowerment.
I also studied at Purdue University at their Global Campus and obtained a Bachelor of Science in Criminal Justice with a Concentration in Homeland Security, graduating as Summa Cum Laude where I was also part of 10 Honors Societies.
I also obtained a Master of Public Administration (MPA), graduating with High GPA Recognition, more commonly known as “Highest Distinction”, also from Purdue University’s Global Campus. I plan to continue my education next Fall where I will transfer to another university to complete my doctorate.
My overall experience growing up as a multi-racial woman in the Midwest was interesting. I found that people would frequently ask me what ethnicity I was. Sometimes out of curiosity, other times because they wanted to know what box to categorize me in. More importantly, I’m a human being just like all of us, and then I’m all of these amazing ethnicities.
I am part Filipino, Spaniard, Japanese, Pacific Islander, French, and English on my mother’s side, and on my father’s side I am part Polish and Sicilian. I overcame many of these challenges by showing people the meaning of being multiracial. To me, the greatest part about being so mixed is that so many people can relate to me or identify with me. Whether it was showing my friends some of my favorite foods or dishes that I ate growing up, or bringing my favorite foods to parties, it was my small way of incorporating my rich culture and heritage into everyday life and sharing it with others. Many times, by the way, they would always ask me where they could get the lumpia and pancit (LOL).
The defining moment in my life and career where I realized my worldview was shifted, was when I accomplished what I did in my professional modeling career. Having my message and advocacies be discussed on a worldwide level with some of the biggest magazines in the world was something I never saw coming. It allowed me to realize that this driving force inside of me has been there from the beginning. Rooted in my family role models, culture, and heritage.
Once I also entered my career in Public Safety, that also greatly changed my worldview as I saw the world from a new perspective, a different lens entirely. I gained insight on some of the socio-economic issues that plague our country as a whole. Some of the greatest lessons I’ve learned throughout my journey thus far is one that I actually learned in academy and I’ve found it to be true. “The body can’t go where the mind has never been.” Meaning, many of the difficulties that people perceive are only in their mind. It is incredible the things the body can accomplish and get through with determination and perseverance.
I’ve also learned that “Sweat Equity” is absolutely real. While working full time, I also went to college full time and completed my studies and earned my degrees at the level that I did, which was certainly no easy feat. If I could talk to my younger self, I would tell her to keep going. Life may seem confusing at this time, and you may even feel unsure, but you are so strong, and you have no idea who you are about to become. If you keep going, you are about to become HER.
KIRSTEN GACKOWSKI
Beauty queen, model, influencer, domestic violence awareness advocate, and law enforcement officer, Chicago