07/05/2026
THE TRUEST DIPLOMATIC SERVICE
Some service comes with a title. The truest service often comes without one.
Today, on the International Day of Women in Diplomacy, I want to honour my wife, Amele Tabuya-Tarakinikini a diplomat in every sense but the official one.
Hers is a DNA of service: to her family, to her people and culture, to her country, and to her God. It is the thread that has run through our life together across every posting and every continent.
In Jerusalem, she served as Executive Secretary of the Women’s Expat Network that served the women & children in Jerusalem & the West Bank. They raised funds to support the children’s cancer hospital in Israel & many others. She hosted weekly Bible Studies for women at our home for diplomats’ & UN spouses. Their annual Christmas ‘shoe box appeal’ - simply every child at the orphanage had a gift at Christmas.
In Kathmandu, she was President of the United Nations Women’s Organization; she led spouses of UN staff & local women of Nepal connecting them with UN agencies, foreign embassies & local business houses - doing social work & raising funds to support women & children of Nepal. They sent girls to school, they visited & supported orphanages & women’s health in rural areas were attended to by connecting them with local hospitals in Kathmandu. She also hosted Women’s Bible Studies in our home; and together with a few other diplomats’ spouses she started a Montessori Kindergarten at the top floor in our home, they hired 2 qualified teachers & shared the expenses for salaries & school supplies. That was also our youngest daughter’s first formal schooling.
And here in New York, from the day I took up the role of Permanent Representative, she set about restoring something at the Permanent Mission of Fiji to the United Nations, New York that matters deeply to us both: an emphasis on iTaukei cultural standards and the true dignity of how our nation carries itself before the world. This year she is a board member of the United Nations Delegations Spouse's Club - UNDSC & they raised over US$90,000 during their annual UN International Bazaar last month to support global humanitarian needs in collaboration with UN OCHA. She worked closely with the Australian Ambassador’s spouse bringing Pacific spouses together & proud to note that this year the children’s corner of the Suva City Canergie Library is also a recipient of this fund. Last year they supported a Literacy program for children in Papua New Guinea. The Pacific is recognized & acknowledged.
She has reached out to our Fijian diaspora, taken her place across the social committees of this community, and brought Fijian culture into every room as a living expression of who we are and what we value.
None of this appears in a communiqué. The Vienna Convention has no word for it. But missions rise or fall on the trust such work builds, and Fiji is the stronger for hers.
On this International Day of Women in Diplomacy, I also pay tribute to the many spouses and partners who quietly strengthen the work of diplomacy around the world. Their contributions may not carry official titles, but they leave a lasting mark on the relationships, trust, and understanding that diplomacy depends upon.
Vinaka vakalevu ‘Mele for a lifetime of quiet, faithful service. I am grateful beyond what words or protocol can record.
Filipo Tarakinikini
Permanent Representative of the Republic of Fiji to the United Nations
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