29/09/2026
Planning your future health care can be difficult, but Barry and his wife made the process a bit more enjoyable with some good food and w**e.
Advance care planning helps you document your future health care preferences and appoint a trusted decision maker to act on your behalf if needed.
Barry's advice for anyone who has been putting off their advance care planning is simple, "Don't. It makes you think about things. It makes you think about your family, what happens here and what happens there. It makes you think about the consequences of not doing it."
Read Barry's story below, or to learn more about the planning process, visit 👉 www.qld.gov.au/health/support/advance-care-planning/making-a-plan
[Image description: Barry, an older gentleman, sitting in a chair, smiling at the camera.]
When Barry and his wife started talking about advance care planning (ACP), they did it over some good food and w**e—a weekly ritual they've had for nearly 60 years. 🥰
Earlier this year, Barry had a fall at home, and when his wife wasn't able to help him up, he was taken to Redland Hospital.
'I was suffering from a knee and hip problem, they locked up and I fell over and lost some skin,' he said.
'My wife couldn't get me up off the floor, so they had to transport me here.'
It was at Redland Hospital that Barry and his wife made the difficult decision that moving into residential aged care would be the safest next step for him. 🏠
'We weren't all that happy about it to start off with,' Barry said.
'But it's a change in life. It changes everyone's life, and you create a whole new world.'
Like many people, Barry and his wife had a will and had briefly talked about appointing an enduring power of attorney, but they'd never taken the next step.
'I hadn't given it much thought. You think you're going to be here forever.'
It wasn't until ACP Clinical Nurse Consultant Lisa visited Barry in the hospital, that he realised how important those conversations were.
ACP involves thinking about and discussing what future health care you do and don't want.
You can record these choices in ACP forms. You can also appoint someone you trust to make health or financial decisions for you. This is a substitute decision-maker.
When Barry decided to get the ball rolling on his ACP, his wife brought the oysters and w**e, so they could enjoy it while they looked over everything. 🍷🥰
'We had a nice glass of w**e and dinner to discuss it. We've always enjoyed trying different cuisines together, and we'll keep doing it.'
Barry said although his wife is in good health, he encouraged her to complete her ACP as well.
'I made sure she was fully informed about the process and what she needed to do,' he said.
With Lisa guiding him through the process, Barry found completing his ACP straightforward.
'I was an accountant, so the process was easy for me. Lisa was also very thorough going through everything with us.'
Barry's advice for anyone who has been putting off their ACP is simple.
'Don't. It makes you think about things. It makes you think about your family, what happens here and what happens there. It makes you think about the consequences of not doing it.'
Thank you for sharing your ACP journey with us, Barry! We hope you're well. 🫶